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Liar.

on June 23, 2013

Liar.

While talking to my ex yesterday, I came right out and told him that he lied to me. He claims he did not lie, but just withheld the truth (same difference). He had told me from the VERY beginning that he would like to be married at some point and that he would like children. Of course now, the tables turned and he says he doesn’t want those things, BUT he had said those things to me just to make me happy. Really? Those are not “things” that you tell someone that you are in a relationship with to make them happy. Why do men do this? It wastes my time and yours. It is interesting though, because i have heard and read of men saying this before and then no sooner do they leave, they find someone else and are married within a year. Why can’t people just be honest? Communication is SO important, yet people do NOT do it! It is beyond frustrating.

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2 responses to “Liar.

  1. elspod says:

    It was strong of you to tell him straight. It’s so easy to chip away at bits of you whilst withholding things you want to say so you don’t hurt the people you love.

    If men would just TALK more and join in our love of trashy tv and chocolates, the world would be a much nicer place! 😉

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